
Reflections on Grief
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When the Tomatoes Ripen
Sometimes it's hard to know what to say to your dying father, and so we just sit together. In a moment of such silence, as his wife was inside preparing for a house showing, I noticed my dad gazing off into space with a far-away look. With an inhale, he picked up his marker and wrote a few words on the white board: “I hope I am still here when the tomatoes ripen”